![]() They can be the Dominant of a little, submissive, or pet.īig- Another non gender specific title that represents someone who sometimes take on the role of a Dominant but can be a submissive. Master- A term that is used for a person who tends to only strictly play a Dominant role. ![]() Usually a person who takes on a care taking/caregiving role to a little. Usually the caretaker for a little.Ĭaregiver- a non gender specific title that represents someone who sometimes takes on the role of a Dominant but can be a submissive. Mommy Domme- a person who prefers a feminine identifying title, sometimes takes on the role of a Dominant but can be submissive as well. They are known as a switch because they “switch” roles sometimes within their relationship or with a different partner.ĭaddy Dom- a person who prefers a masculine identifying title, sometimes takes on the role of a Dominant but can be the submissive as well. Switch- An individual who enjoys being both a Dominant and a submissive. They tend to be the person who receives the punishment and have to follow the enforced rules. Submissive- A Submissive is an individual who is the “bottom” in a BDSM or BDSM spectrum relationship. They are also the protector of their submissive. They tend to be the person who makes the rules, and doles out the punishment. Once again ages are not set in stone because not every middle has a set age and not ever middle feels they represent the above listed age.ĭominant- An individual who is the “top” in a BDSM relationship or BDSM spectrum relationship. ![]() They tend to be mentally older than littles, more around the teen ages. The term middle can fall under the little broad spectrum term. Middle- a middle is a person who mentally (or physically) feels younger than they physically are. ![]() We don’t set these ages in stone because not every little has an age and not every little feels they represent the above listed age. A little is roughly around the ages of 0-12. It can cover all types of individuals who feel they are younger than their physical age. The term little is often a broad spectrum. I think that sort of game (for some) creates some seriously unclear expectations and is mentally unfair.Vocabulary- Little- a little is a person who mentally (or physically) feels younger than they physically are. I’m referring (in my reblog) mostly to anon’s question with my answer because it reads as though she isn’t enjoying being “forced” to disobey. *Of course, if both Dom and sub are in on the game and both enjoy it, that’s different. And why would anyone want there submissive to experience that sort of mindfuck? (Unless the Dom in question is a sadist and then all bets are off, lol.) Think of how this sort of obedience paradox sets us up for failure no matter what and it becomes clear: we’re damned if we do, damned if we don’t. It’s difficult to unthread the overwhelming desire to obey from the fabric of who we are and setting us up for it (when it’s clear it’s detrimental to the submissive) is cruel*. For many subs, even if it’s during play and beyond our control, if we “disobey” - we feel it within our being and struggle very much with it. This is why having clear communication, explicit expectations, and also why knowing your submissive is so important for a Dominant. I think it’s a problem when people extend this to other things and confuse true behavior-modification punishment with this type of play. It’s about outsmarting you, overpowering you in different ways, and a little humiliation. :) I will then make it impossible for you to obey.whatever I know works for you… wand between your legs… wand between your legs and hand around your throat… or maybe my tongue between your legs and two fingers inside pressing against that certain spot… we both know you stand no chance, but, if I do my job right, you are truly scared… and you are truly sorry when you lose our little game… Now, it’s not true punishment because I’m going to hurt you very, very badly anyway, and we both know it. I mean I might grab your throat, slap your face, look into your eyes and tell you that you need to obey… you need to not cum… and that if you do cum… if you disobey me… I will hurt you very, very badly. This is a good example… tell a girl not to cum, make it impossible for her to obey (and yes, to answer your question, I would exploit whatever weakness I could find lol), and then punish her for not obeying. I make a bit point out of punishment not being play… everyone asks about my favorite punishments, etc… but there is a place for play punishment. You sent me this ask a few days ago too, and you raise a good point.
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